Why is it that people are always talking about how bad child abuse is and how it should be stopped, yet NOT one single foundation, entity, person will help a child that is, has and will continue to be abused if there is a custody proceeding. I have tried every possible foundation, organization, public charity and even the local bar association. The latter is booked for the summer and the rest, well no one will get involved witgh a custody dispute.
Why is that? Is it because they don't want to get into a he said, she said thing. Why wouldn't they just ask for proof> I can show them proof, they can talk to my oldest boy, who it seems the courts here really don't give too much to, Cause my atty. says they generally do not talk to the children. WHY NOT ITS THE CHILD WHO IS BEING HURT? Who cares what I have to say, at least listen to the child! I can see if the child is too young and doesn't understand fact from fiction, but when you have an 8 y/o who is extremley intelligent and well above others his age then I think the courts should at least give him a listen! He knows what he wants and he knows whats happened to him and who did it. Why would the school feel the need to call police when my spouse, HIS PARENT tried to take him out of school? BECAUSE HE TOLD THEM HE DIDN"T WANT TO GO ANYWHERE WITH HIS MOTHER!
I really need help with funding this lawyer.... Please find it in your heart to help me help my children... I have so far raised 2500.00 and now I think I will be needing anothe 2500.00 to at least get through the custody hearings. I don't care about our marital home or any of the possessions , I don't care to get half of her pension I don't care about anything but my children! I don't even care about child support I will make it on OUR OWN! All I want is these children to be safe, grow up without losing their childhood.
Can you beleive that my 8y/o took his FIRST BATH 4 months ago? Why, because my spouse wouldn't let him "wallow in his own filth". I mean come on, I can understand if the child just came in from playing in the mud or something, but never allowing him to play in the tub with toys??
When my spouse left the marital home she left him behind, but she did feel the need to take HIS computer, not because she needed one, but because she knew it was his favorite thing and it would tell him that she is mad at him! He asked me why she didn't take anything of his but his computer, I told him that I had no idea, but maybe she needed it for something. THere was no way that she could have used it after she took it, because when she took it, she broke / ripped out a critical part. Knowing her, I feel that since she could get the screwed in plug out she just yanked it out. The computer was at that point no good to her. She never tried to contact him in 3 months, though I let him call her cell, she didn't answer so he left a message, she never returned his call. Yet, she felt the need to drive by the house every morning before work. Couldn't she have dropped something in the mail box or leave something on the porch for him? NO! WHY? How could she do this to her first born son? For him I had no answers and he was sad and mad about it. All I could do was to comfort him, I couldn't tell him my thoughts.
I guess I keep writing because it helps me cope. I feel the need to talk this out, maybe its even better for me to just type it and have people read it, I do keep a journal but I am the only one who reads that. I just hope that someone out there will read what we are going through and help us. Every little bit would help. I out food on the table keep the electric on, I Ihave no choice but to keep the TV and the internet running, because if I turn it off I have to pay early termination fees! WHAT? ETF's I've scaled everything back to the minimun and have turned off my aircard, well, had it suspended so that I don't have to pay the full amount on it.
I do have a solar array that we used to use for camping if anyone is interested? 4 panels, 3 in the array and one to use for a maintenance charge.
Ok, Now, I'm getting off subject.. ANYWAY, please Please help us! If I can just get through the custody hearing we will be much better off. Once the children are in my care all the time I will be able to raise them with more love and care then she will ever have. I couldn't be closer to these children unless I had them myself! I am more a mother to them and I am all they have ever known to give them comfort, compassion and respect. ALl she did was to go to work come home and be mean to them. I can't say that she was ALWAYS mean everyday day in and day out, she did have her good times but when your son does a project for 1st grade where he has to write about his family and what they do and he puts down, under "mommy" watch the news, go shopping sleep then I'll be darned if something is NOT WRONG! Andhe's right, thats exactly mommy she watched the news went shopping and slept and went to work..
Ihave to stop cause I just keep running on
Thanks for listening to me rant and if you can please help us. even a little bit.
If you can or will help and need to get in touch with me then reply here and I will even give you my phone number and you can speak to me directly just to show that this is not a scam.
